My cousin once ever advised me on my relationship, which was to "just do it" and avoid ever regreting not trying.
That was why I patched back with Elson last time, and till today, I will never regret that decision.
It's really true, that in life, the worst thing to live on is with regret.
That's why I had the strong will to still try my best to work the relationship out eventhough it was torn and tattered.
It's only a pity that he didn't had that will power anymore.
And that's why I had to let go.
But hey, I did it and ending up not regretting one bit. Because at least, I know I did my part and tried my very best.
(Thanks jie~)
I really truly believe in living a life without regrets.
It shows at the way I spent my money, for example.
Yes some of you may think it is "wrong" not saving up majority of what I earn for my future.
All I can respond is that, I DO SAVE. It may not be what you approve of, but let me tell you that I am spending with no regrets.
I do not waste all my money on materialistic things until I have no savings. I call that a endulgence that I give myself once every few months- spend to buy something I like for my happiness.
I splurge on my family members. I mean I literally will. What my Mum wants, I get it for her without a bat of an eyelid. Because she deserves it for sole-handedly bringing us up, and sacrificing her monetary happiness for ours. It is time I repay that back.
I feel that why should one be so thrifty on the happiness of family members, when you'll only regret of being so stingy once if they ever leave you.
I love my family, and they are everything to me.
Try living a life without regret.
(Of course within your conscience too)
I think you'll enjoy the true happiness that is to follow in LIFE itself. =)
Like they always say;
Life is so short. Live it to the fullest without regrets!
And I know that if I die tomorrow, I'll die without regrets.
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